A Singledom...

due to some reason, i've been experiencing a singledom for about 4 mths now.. but it seem to be a whole year...

seeing each other for five years, and now being single suddenly... is really pitiful.

- head home straight after work
- no one to share thoughts, ups and downs
- no one to nag
- no one to pamper me
- no fat to pinch (he is fat)
- no more personal doctor for pcs
- no one to help tidy my room (sigh.. not a secret anymore)
- no one to go with for food hunting
- no one to schedule a vacation with
- sleep all day in the weekends

SIGH...

but.. on a second thought, being single is not all that bad la.

- less one regular destination, save petrol! :)
- more time on my korean vcds. he always stopped me from doing that, cos once i started, i will go straight to the end, not sleeping for whole morning.
- no need to negotiate on how to spend life day-to-day (put myself first)
- enjoy life without being nagged by the old folks, on 'getting there' - marriage, home, kids, etc. he is the only son but we r definitely not ready.
- no more 'victim' as my long term partner, save time to think hard and plan for our future. (ya, he must be happy that he escaped from someone who may ruin his life freedom.. lucky him!)

the Pros list look very short hor, compared to the Cons. seem to be short but actually very very long! i'm juz cutting them short mar. :P

anyway, my close frens... i know u have lots of questions in mind now.. how could i keep this to myself for so many mths... juz dun worry, i'm as happy as i seem to be now, here while blogging. dun dig any details from me, u will get no more than wat u read here. juz pray for me, and wish me luck... then i'll be grateful.

Let bygones be bygones. Cheers to everyone!